Op-Ed: Young man, how can I help you?
Being raised in a military household taught me many lessons in life that I feel have made me the man I am today. During my mid-twenties, with spare time on my hands, I decided to become a mentor through Big Brothers Big Sisters. This decision would be life changing in more ways than I ever imagined. Mentoring youth in need is more than a noble cause, but rather an opportunity to provide a young boy or girl with insights and knowledge as they grow up and navigate the world. My mentoring experience partnered me with a 6 year old boy, Chris, with no father figure in his life. Male relatives were present for Chris, but his mother was seeking something different in his life. When I met both of them for the first time, I do not believe any of us were ready for the experience. I was thinking too linearly, the requirements of the program called for certain things and that was my expectation. Chris’s mother seemed to feel the same way as we would negotiate monthly activities f